Like someone said, I don't know where that person got it from and I'm sure this is known to many of you out there, but they (people) don't have to accept you, but they can not deny you! Live by that and you will be fine. I walk around trying to suck in my fat and I wonder, why am I doing it? It's making my life more difficult, they see me and know that I'm fat, so why do I need to make myself uncomfortable and squeeze it in when it doesn't work anyways? Be proud ladies and gentlemen, who cares if your jelly rolls jiggle just a little, as long as it's not sticking (literally) out there and saying hi.
They do not have to accept you for who you are and what you are, but that does not mean that they can deny who you are and what you are, because you are who you are (does that make sense?).